Tag Archives: punishment

talk back is not a safe bet #food4thought

A public service announcement intended for your betterment by #StrictMotivation


this is for those,
who do not (yet) understand,
but trust Me, you will,
in the end


what ever it takes.
I will help you, dear
so don’t fret, and do not fear
help (readily available) is near


If you get told what to do,
and lectured,
it is a grace – mind you –
and requires gratitude
more than a bad attitude.


If you cannot say something nice,
it sure is no vice
to say “yes Sir”
and keep your *but Sir*
to your own self.


if this was an opinions club
or a court house,
I am sure you have great arguments,
but we are not arguing.


I am telling you, and you listen.
either as it is, or with a bar of soap
helping you to focus
your energy on your ears,
rather than your mouth.



so if your attitude goes south,
soap will cure your mouth.
Cleanse you from the sin
of unduly speaking
and allow My lecture to sink in


#StrictMotivation Alternative Life Training #SMalt



#MRI why dont you reveal your punishment?

I was asked by one of My play-partners today a question that will come up time and again.


“what is it with you Daddys/Doms/Disciplinarians that you never reveal what the punishment will be; why do you make me (us) wait? Don’t you know how antsy we bottoms get? The anxiety is killing us!”


My answer was simple. “It is a power thing: you bottoms have the power to (learn to) control your behaviors and us D-types are in charge of the consequences for your behavior. As for making you wait and not know – that **is** the point. It is a punishment, aka a deterrent to unwanted behaviors. Therefore your dread and apprehension feelings are just another bonus to the general idea. If you don’t want to face the consequences, don’t deserve them in the first place #StrictMotivation




FAQ. the study #SMalt


Can I come and visit that study of yours? It sounds like an amazing (even if scary) place


No and yes. how so? No, you cannot be invited into the study in real life, because that described study is a virtual place, not a real room in a real house. It is a virtual room in a virtual house, in My House of #StrictMotivation Alternative Life Training (SMalt). And thus, Yes, you can be invited into the study, described in some of My writings, in the effect, that it will have on you.



You can be welcomed into My disciplinary practice, virtually, online, from the convenience and privacy of your home and receive the scoldings and lectures, as well as other forms of discipline in that very spirit. Be them through Live Directed Discipline aka interaction over skype, kik, snapchat. messenger etc or through Static Directed Discipline in the form of emailed instructions. 


you can experience and explore those unique feelings that come with real(istic) punishment scenarios, having to report about your achievements and challenges or confess the shortcomings; endure the interrogations and being held to a standard and accountable.



you may get send to the corner, experience stress positions and the stress of having your motives and motivations questioned, your inventory taken. you can feel the humbling experience of being questioned by an experienced disciplinarian who can see through your excuses and see you through your trepidations at life. Someone willing not only to take matters in His hands, but also to take you in hand as needed.


Someone who is very versed in providing this service, and who can translate those very feelings conveyed through faced and followed through disciplinary actions in “real time” or “real life” in long distance / remote settings, through means of online, virtual, “cyberspace” communication. Someone who knows what it feels like to be “for real” on either side of the stick and can use implements at hand to create that desired realistic experience.




Someone who supplements the discipline and structure necessary for your success at life, if and when you are struggling to implement it from within with consistency and integrity.


Someone, who puts your long term best interest above their or your own convenience and pushes you, to become and be the best you, you can be.


#gratitude 171119 Disciplinary success

#PS (Proud Sir) That moment when after #SSC #Discipline their behavior shows radical changes toward betterment. #worthit 😀 good girl! keep going! #StrictMotivation Alternative Life Training #SMalt


Testimony – by one of Mine –

A testimony from one of Mine, about their perception of the [SMalt] Services I provide


I […] realize that indeed you do what you do because you care and love [your boys and girls] and want to see them becoming the best possible men and women that they can be. And […] saying how I feel as being one under your care […] is that even though Sir is harsh at times  it is only done through love and care wanting the very best for us and sometimes it takes a harsh punishment to really change a behavior from bad into a lasting good behavior one that you will become strong in first from the motivation that Sir gives but then pretty soon from your own inner being.

AD 2017, Th Sept 21




#food4thought #disrespect 170702

Guess what happens, if you are getting a deserved scolding, and try to switch the subject. exactly, the consequences will be swift and memorable. Not having that sort of disrespect. #StrictMotivation 


if you abuse, you become an abuser

The funny thing about behavior is that it determines how people will qualify you. I will give you an example. If you keep helping people who are in need, people will perceive you as gentle, as helpful, as kind, as caring. Why? Because the behavior you show determines how people will qualify you. I am not saying judge you. But they will use your mainly and repeatedly shown traits of character to characterize you as a person.

When you are always truthful they will say, “look, an honest person.” Now when you go around vandalizing other people’s property, they will call you a vandal. When you go around and steal stuff that does not belong to you, they will call you a thief. And when you go around and rape people, you will be called a rapist.

The good thing about behavior is that if you change your behavior, you are also changing who you will be perceived to be. So even if you had been a thief you can turn into a respectable member of society by behaving as one.
I know it isn’t that simple with crime, but that is the basic of civilized society.
If you self-abuse, you become an abuser. It doesn’t matter what means you use to self harm and self-abuse, you are an abuser. If you were abused and turn your victimhood into becoming a perpetuator, you have become your own worst enemy: an abuser. All your justifications don’t fly. While you do live in that body of yours, you are not entitled to abuse it. You may think it is only your business but it is not.

When you exempt one thing, why should another not be an exception? Let Me be very clear on this concept. You had been victimized and made into a victim of abuse. Now, in turn, you start relieving your struggle by abusing yourself. Your justification and entitlement goes along the lines – I don’t harm anyone else – but you completely ignore that you TOO are harming yourself. By that self harm, you are basically justifying the original abuse, because it only harmed yourself.

You have not that right. Whatever you do to yourself you are also doing to anyone who loves you, cares about you and has or is investing into you. Anyone who helps you get better is being slapped in their face for helping you get better.

Self-abuse is abuse to someone in the whole system through someone in the whole system and constitutes as abuse. Lesser or bigger are only marginal differences. The thinking is flawed the same.
There is no excuse for abuse, and so all abuse stops.
It doesn’t start with that rapist over there. You don’t have the power to make the rapist over there change, but you do have the power and thus urgently also the vocation to control yourself and find better ways to dealing with whatever stress there is than using proxy means or direct means to perpetuate any form of abuse.

When you sign up for My care I will start drilling that into you, because I don’t stand for abuse. Instead of just categorically forbidding it, I go many steps further and will give you step by step instructions for better, viable options. If you keep insisting on the easier road out, and keep abusing, eventually I will have to cut ties with you. Because I don’t stand for abuse you will learn to bust your ass to not even think about (self) abuse.

I don’t care whether your choice of poison is drugs, food, or a blade. There are stress relief methods I am teaching you, I will train you to relief emotional stress emotionally, I will help you grow into an incredible form of yourself you have not even dreamt possible, but you will not abuse. No-one including and starting with yourself.

And rest assured, I will not take abuse from you just the same.

Signing up with Me means you sign off the abuse option, forever.

(c) 2016 StrictMotivation@yahoo.com