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when the boy gets an “oh boy”

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quotes from #PR (Punishment report) by richard j.
[richard j. broke the law and put himself in harm’s way]

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i didn’t consider any of the risks involved, nor did i consider any of the people that care about me whilst taking such risks. i was made to kneel in the corner on rice and listen to a scolding from Sir.

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W/we then talked about it for a while, and i prepared a bar of Dove soap [as instructed] Once it was ready, i was made to kneel back in the corner on rice (naked from waist down) [for a thorough mouth soaping]…

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had to listen to the scolding again whilst kneeling there with my head lowered to allow drool to drain from my mouth onto my shirt.

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Once the scolding was finished i had the soap coat the inside of my mouth and mixed with the drool cover my face, and then say the paragraph Sir had prepared for me out-loud before i was allowed to wash up. i then wrote the paragraph as lines 10 times.

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i have a particular dislike for the dove brand soap, i hate the smell of it so it was particularly awful for me. Kneeling in the rice was a lot harder and more painful the second time and i had difficulties kneeling completely upright and keeping posture.

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The soap was awful and i could taste and smell it for the rest of the evening. The whole punishment made me feel degraded and humiliated, but also very sorry for what i did. It was a hard lesson to learn.

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i learned that i need to think of my health and the pain i could potentially cause others before making decisions that are harmful. i learned that not only [breaking the law/put myself in harm’s way are] bad, but the punishment is much, much worse. i learned that Sir is there for me, to protect me when i am weak and don’t protect myself.

 

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#food4thought on the science of weasels

if you “slap me with science” to get out of a consequence, I will whip you with wiSdoM #StrictMotivation

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talk back is not a safe bet #food4thought

A public service announcement intended for your betterment by #StrictMotivation

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this is for those,
who do not (yet) understand,
but trust Me, you will,
eventually,
in the end

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what ever it takes.
I will help you, dear
so don’t fret, and do not fear
help (readily available) is near

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If you get told what to do,
and lectured,
it is a grace – mind you –
and requires gratitude
more than a bad attitude.

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If you cannot say something nice,
it sure is no vice
to say “yes Sir”
and keep your *but Sir*
to your own self.

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if this was an opinions club
or a court house,
I am sure you have great arguments,
but we are not arguing.

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I am telling you, and you listen.
either as it is, or with a bar of soap
helping you to focus
your energy on your ears,
rather than your mouth.

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so if your attitude goes south,
soap will cure your mouth.
Cleanse you from the sin
of unduly speaking
and allow My lecture to sink in

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#StrictMotivation Alternative Life Training #SMalt

 

#MRI why dont you reveal your punishment?

I was asked by one of My play-partners today a question that will come up time and again.

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“what is it with you Daddys/Doms/Disciplinarians that you never reveal what the punishment will be; why do you make me (us) wait? Don’t you know how antsy we bottoms get? The anxiety is killing us!”

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My answer was simple. “It is a power thing: you bottoms have the power to (learn to) control your behaviors and us D-types are in charge of the consequences for your behavior. As for making you wait and not know – that **is** the point. It is a punishment, aka a deterrent to unwanted behaviors. Therefore your dread and apprehension feelings are just another bonus to the general idea. If you don’t want to face the consequences, don’t deserve them in the first place #StrictMotivation

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FAQ. the study #SMalt

Q:

Can I come and visit that study of yours? It sounds like an amazing (even if scary) place

A:

No and yes. how so? No, you cannot be invited into the study in real life, because that described study is a virtual place, not a real room in a real house. It is a virtual room in a virtual house, in My House of #StrictMotivation Alternative Life Training (SMalt). And thus, Yes, you can be invited into the study, described in some of My writings, in the effect, that it will have on you.

 

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You can be welcomed into My disciplinary practice, virtually, online, from the convenience and privacy of your home and receive the scoldings and lectures, as well as other forms of discipline in that very spirit. Be them through Live Directed Discipline aka interaction over skype, kik, snapchat. messenger etc or through Static Directed Discipline in the form of emailed instructions. 

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you can experience and explore those unique feelings that come with real(istic) punishment scenarios, having to report about your achievements and challenges or confess the shortcomings; endure the interrogations and being held to a standard and accountable.

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you may get send to the corner, experience stress positions and the stress of having your motives and motivations questioned, your inventory taken. you can feel the humbling experience of being questioned by an experienced disciplinarian who can see through your excuses and see you through your trepidations at life. Someone willing not only to take matters in His hands, but also to take you in hand as needed.

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Someone who is very versed in providing this service, and who can translate those very feelings conveyed through faced and followed through disciplinary actions in “real time” or “real life” in long distance / remote settings, through means of online, virtual, “cyberspace” communication. Someone who knows what it feels like to be “for real” on either side of the stick and can use implements at hand to create that desired realistic experience.

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Someone who supplements the discipline and structure necessary for your success at life, if and when you are struggling to implement it from within with consistency and integrity.

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Someone, who puts your long term best interest above their or your own convenience and pushes you, to become and be the best you, you can be.

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#gratitude 171119 Disciplinary success

#PS (Proud Sir) That moment when after #SSC #Discipline their behavior shows radical changes toward betterment. #worthit 😀 good girl! keep going! #StrictMotivation Alternative Life Training #SMalt

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Testimony – by one of Mine –

A testimony from one of Mine, about their perception of the [SMalt] Services I provide

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I […] realize that indeed you do what you do because you care and love [your boys and girls] and want to see them becoming the best possible men and women that they can be. And […] saying how I feel as being one under your care […] is that even though Sir is harsh at times  it is only done through love and care wanting the very best for us and sometimes it takes a harsh punishment to really change a behavior from bad into a lasting good behavior one that you will become strong in first from the motivation that Sir gives but then pretty soon from your own inner being.

AD 2017, Th Sept 21

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