Tag Archives: Life

MRI on lifestyle burn-out

is it possible, that i am a vanilla again because i have no more kinky feelings and desires any longer. I feel empty, not willing to bottom, submit (dominate, top), nothing strikes my fancy… @doubtingkinky *name changed

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In My experience, everything lives on a spectrum, not in absolutes. do you remember when it was fresh and new and shiny? that feeling of brand-new extra super special … it does not usually last, thank Goodness, it doesn’t, it would be so exhausting! then there is settling, where the frenzied feeling is gone, and you might find yourself hungover, and then another shiny comes along, and maybe you get aflame and burn and crash and burn fast or you burn slowly, and then sometimes you burn out. you get blah, meh, jaded, and then you may find yourself coming back to the shiny, but less enthusiastic, less blindable, and that is called maturing.

like it is in vanilla relationships or life in general. the years have seasons and the spectrum on which your *insert role* resides may undergo waves and radical changes. and that is OK

love yourself anyway. if you need time to breathe or lick wounds, breathe and lick wounds. know that eventually, every winter passes, and spring will renew you. you may be different than the years before, in role or attitude but you stay true to the wonderful, uniquely you! #StrictMotivation #AlternativeLifeTraining #SMalt

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But Daddy… #food4thought 170720

Don’t “but daddy” Daddy or Daddy will redden your butt to get you ready already. #StrictMotivation #wejustgetbetter #discipline #success #weightloss #healthyliving

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Follow the beat of your true heart. Follow the  wisDom of your Sir who is with you, every minute of every day in Spirit, every step of the way. And if in doubt or trial always choose love. #StrictMotivation #wejustgetbetter

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#riseandshine Rainbow lines with My breakfast in the mail, and My morning brightens even more. I love My work of #SMart. SMile! comes from within #StrictMotivation #wejustgetbetter

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Need help so you can be reaching your worthy life goals, improving yourself or your behaviors, break addictions, change your ways? hit Me up. I work successfully be it long distance or face to face. easily affordable working, holistic step by step life-coaching programs; My success rate with willing people tops 90%. We just get better #StrictMotivation

My Ethics Manifesto {SM}{1641}

what you need to know, when you are under My wings….

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I work from a place of plenty. I am not a thirsty, hungry, lusting man, pressed to get itches scratched, nor to balance shortcomings and personal frustrations with jerking people around. I am not some immature boy, afraid of emotions and feelings, afraid to face and deal with the truth and hard things. I have had more than My share with hardship, and I know from both onlooking as well as personal experience how hard life can be. I have been kicked and beaten and had to learn to roll with the punches, but also come back better and stronger, choosing My battles and never ever giving up. It was quite a ride up until now, but I know that every hardship I have braved has made Me a better tool forged to help those in need of My services

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I have learned to be proud and I have learned to be humble. I have learned when to be loud and when to be silent. I have learned where a battle is necessary to be fought, even at the prospect of losing it, and when you have to tactically calculate a loss to receive a greater gain. I have learned about sacrifice, and that a lot of personal things should not be taken personally. However also that some things need to be taken personally and onto My own shoulders as to help someone else to grow.

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These have been lessons hard to learn, and I have come out scorched but not burned, scarred but not scared nor disfigured. I have learned to stand My ground and put My foot down as necessary but not becoming a tool of the enemy, in what ever form it may come.

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when I take on someone to care for, they are not just under My wings, so I can play boss. They are under My wings to be taken care of in every way possible. To be equipped and empowered to live a fulfilled and happy life. prepared and trained to live a life of freedom and responsibility, not the life of being a play ball in a game they don’t understand to play. I am empowering people to overcome their worst and becoming their best.

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When you are in My care and you are really pummeled by life, don’t count on Me becoming the enemies strap and whip you senseless. I will whip you into shape however I see fit instead . I will not be the enemies stick to beat you down when you are in the dirt. I will become that stick, that crutch you can get up on. I will get dirty, and not find it bad, hard or disgusting. I will not look down on you, like you are some weakling for being beaten down. I will still see the redeeming quality in you. I will see the potential and the spark. I will help you become the fire you aspire and need to be. I will fan you on, support you and be happy to help you.

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I will not just point in the right direction of the straight and narrow that will help to keep you safe and help you get the traction in your life you need. I will also lead by example and be holding Myself to a high standard, becoming the example you can get inspired by. I know where you are, because I have been there Myself. And I will not be condescending nor arrogant. I will be there with you every step of the way, patiently yet insistingly, pushing you to become the best you, you never even thought possible. Because I have a vision for you, because I care for you and because I do believe in you even in times where you cant.

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I may be Strict and harsh at times for your own good, but I will not ever be abusive. I will never give up on you or leaving you to your own devices when you are My responsibility. I will take your betterment seriously and make it a priority in your life. Because this is not just what I do.

This is who I am

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Cry into Me, I will not mind the tears and the snot. Blow your nose into My shoulder I will cherish you. I will help you get over that hardship and brave your life, because believe it or not, yes, you are worth it.

Keep going, I got your back

(c) 2016 StrictMotivation@yahoo.com

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#StrictMotivation is a working, holistic do-able and goal oriented life coaching. It provides guidance and assistance and helps people as well as businesses turn failing into success. Strict Motivation is designed to work Long Distance, from the convenience of your home and does not require you demeaning yourself let alone on web cam (!) Strict Motivation comes with full discretion services protecting your identity at no extra charge; at your pace and your place, tailored individually to your specific needs. Strict Motivation offers you the chance to reaching your worthy life goals. Strict Motivation works for consenting adults and families / businesses, regardless of the people’s age, ethnicity, gender identity, spiritual background, location, social /relationship /employment status, role,  or sexual orientation. Reasonably priced, easily affordable rates and a working program: My success rate with willing people tops 90% – No tricks; just get better with #StrictMotivation.

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#food4thought Winners deal with the truth, losers choose lies and omissions. A successful life is lived truthfully with honesty. #StrictMotivation

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Strict Motivation offers help reaching your worthy life goals, through working, goal oriented real life coaching, Easily affordable. Strict Motivation is created to work Long Distance, from the convenience of your home and tailored to your specific needs, including as much discretion as you desire. Your gender identity or age are of no objection to Me. Strict Motivation is a holistic step by step approach. My Successrate with willing people tops 90%. no tricks, just get better with #StrictMotivation (c)StrictMotivation@yahoo.com

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We cant sleep in and show up late, we #go2bed knowing what is at stake. Our being good in turn attracts, and we shall reap all blessings best #StrictMotivation

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Strict Motivation offers help reaching your worthy life goals, through working, goal oriented real life coaching, Easily affordable. Strict Motivation is created to work Long Distance, from the convenience of your home and tailored to your specific needs, including as much discretion as you desire. Your gender identity or age are of no objection to Me. Strict Motivation is a holistic step by step approach. My Successrate with willing people tops 90%. no tricks, just get better with #StrictMotivation (c)StrictMotivation@yahoo.com