Tue Sept 13 2016 #RiseAndShine

#RiseAndShine Today we’ll work diligently We will not whine. We will embarce the challenges Make good use of our time #StrictMotivation

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  • replacing dysfunctional coping mechanisms with working coping skills
  • a holistic, goal-oriented and do-able step by step approach
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#RiseAndShine Mon. Sept 12 2016

#RiseAndShine Monday is fun day, when we can prove to ourselves and everyone else, what we are made of. Let’s get going and be productive. The world is ours to be had #StrictMotivation

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Offering Accountability Coaching, Behavioral Discipline and Strict Motivation to turn your life from failing to success, to break you free from dysfunction and addiction and help you reach worthy life goals. Success Training and Healthy Living with a Holistic Seasoned  Life Coach. Reasonable and easily affordable rates, as well as a do-able step by step approach that helps you learn how to succeed in the real world. Dont miss out. Just get better, with #StrictMotivation (c) 2016 StrictMotivation@yahoo.com 

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if you abuse, you become an abuser

The funny thing about behavior is that it determines how people will qualify you. I will give you an example. If you keep helping people who are in need, people will perceive you as gentle, as helpful, as kind, as caring. Why? Because the behavior you show determines how people will qualify you. I am not saying judge you. But they will use your mainly and repeatedly shown traits of character to characterize you as a person.

When you are always truthful they will say, “look, an honest person.” Now when you go around vandalizing other people’s property, they will call you a vandal. When you go around and steal stuff that does not belong to you, they will call you a thief. And when you go around and rape people, you will be called a rapist.

The good thing about behavior is that if you change your behavior, you are also changing who you will be perceived to be. So even if you had been a thief you can turn into a respectable member of society by behaving as one.
I know it isn’t that simple with crime, but that is the basic of civilized society.
If you self-abuse, you become an abuser. It doesn’t matter what means you use to self harm and self-abuse, you are an abuser. If you were abused and turn your victimhood into becoming a perpetuator, you have become your own worst enemy: an abuser. All your justifications don’t fly. While you do live in that body of yours, you are not entitled to abuse it. You may think it is only your business but it is not.

When you exempt one thing, why should another not be an exception? Let Me be very clear on this concept. You had been victimized and made into a victim of abuse. Now, in turn, you start relieving your struggle by abusing yourself. Your justification and entitlement goes along the lines – I don’t harm anyone else – but you completely ignore that you TOO are harming yourself. By that self harm, you are basically justifying the original abuse, because it only harmed yourself.

You have not that right. Whatever you do to yourself you are also doing to anyone who loves you, cares about you and has or is investing into you. Anyone who helps you get better is being slapped in their face for helping you get better.

Self-abuse is abuse to someone in the whole system through someone in the whole system and constitutes as abuse. Lesser or bigger are only marginal differences. The thinking is flawed the same.
There is no excuse for abuse, and so all abuse stops.
It doesn’t start with that rapist over there. You don’t have the power to make the rapist over there change, but you do have the power and thus urgently also the vocation to control yourself and find better ways to dealing with whatever stress there is than using proxy means or direct means to perpetuate any form of abuse.

When you sign up for My care I will start drilling that into you, because I don’t stand for abuse. Instead of just categorically forbidding it, I go many steps further and will give you step by step instructions for better, viable options. If you keep insisting on the easier road out, and keep abusing, eventually I will have to cut ties with you. Because I don’t stand for abuse you will learn to bust your ass to not even think about (self) abuse.

I don’t care whether your choice of poison is drugs, food, or a blade. There are stress relief methods I am teaching you, I will train you to relief emotional stress emotionally, I will help you grow into an incredible form of yourself you have not even dreamt possible, but you will not abuse. No-one including and starting with yourself.

And rest assured, I will not take abuse from you just the same.

Signing up with Me means you sign off the abuse option, forever.

#StrictMotivation
(c) 2016 StrictMotivation@yahoo.com

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#go2bed  going to bed early means getting a head start. It is OK to cry about things that are sad. It is no reason to give up, but try harder next time. giving up means being bad #StrictMotivation

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~~~ if you need some help reaching your worthy life goals, and would like to incorporate consensual kinks into a working, do-able and goal oriented life coaching, hit Me up. My rates are reasonable and easily affordable. Strict Motivation is created to work Long Distance, from the convenience of your home and tailored to your specific needs, including as much discretion as you desire. Strict Motivation is a holistic step by step approach. My Successrate with willing people tops 90%. no tricks, just get better with #StrictMotivation ~~~ StrictMotivation@yahoo.com

 

 

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your life will not change for the better, until and unless you change for the better. #StrictMotivation

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I am a seasoned experienced life coach and success trainer with international experience in turning around failing businesses into thriving ones, and turning people’s misery into their success story.  How that miracle is done, you ask? Step by step

Strict Motivation îs  a life affirmating, holistic,  working. do-able and goal oriented step by step life coaching and success training. We equip and train you with a reliable and precise navigational system to succeed at life, while disabeling your dysfunctional and obstructive behaviors and thought patterns. You will be taught and trained to discover opportunity not just in chance but also in adversity and to use the energy hidden their-in to effectively propel you in life

Regardless what you are struggeling with: work/school, family/relationships, health and weight goals, addictions or any other form of unhappiness, Strict Motivation will help you become the victor not the victim of circumstance.

Optionally – if so inclined – we may even incorporate consensual kinks at no extra charge : the Behavioral Discipline program onto the Strict Motivation Life Coaching and Success Training.

Strict Motivation (& Behavioral Discipline) are created to work Long Distance, from the convenience of your home and tailored to your specific needs, including as much discretion as you desire. You will be working with a real person, motivated and invested into helping you get better

Strict Motivation (& Behavioral Discipline) are available for  consenting adults only, of any gender, age or sexual orientation. The rates are easily affordable and very reasonable. For less than the price of a fast food meal a day, you could  change your life to benefit you, and become the best version of yourself. 

My Successrate with willing people tops 90%.

The time to get better is now.  Get in touch  and just get better with #StrictMotivation

 

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you can expect Me to bring solutions to your doorstep in exchange for you bringing your troubles to Mine. like ’em or not you better get started. I am not asking. I am telling! #StrictMotivation

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I am a seasoned experienced life coach and success trainer with international experience in turning around failing businesses into thriving ones, and turning people’s misery into their success story.  How that miracle is done, you ask? Step by step

Strict Motivation îs  a life affirmating, holistic,  working. do-able and goal oriented step by step life coaching and success training. We equip and train you with a reliable and precise navigational system to succeed at life, while disabeling your dysfunctional and obstructive behaviors and thought patterns. You will be taught and trained to discover opportunity not just in chance but also in adversity and to use the energy hidden their-in to effectively propel you in life

Regardless what you are struggeling with: work/school, family/relationships, health and weight goals, addictions or any other form of unhappiness, Strict Motivation will help you become the victor not the victim of circumstance.

Optionally – if so inclined – we may even incorporate consensual kinks at no extra charge : the Behavioral Discipline program onto the Strict Motivation Life Coaching and Success Training.

Strict Motivation (& Behavioral Discipline) are created to work Long Distance, from the convenience of your home and tailored to your specific needs, including as much discretion as you desire. You will be working with a real person, motivated and invested into helping you get better

Strict Motivation (& Behavioral Discipline) are available for  consenting adults only, of any gender, age or sexual orientation. The rates are easily affordable and very reasonable. For less than the price of a fast food meal a day, you could  change your life to benefit you, and become the best version of yourself. 

My Successrate with willing people tops 90%.

The time to get better is now.  Get in touch  and just get better with #StrictMotivation

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