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#food4thought mission contra omission

just because you did not (yet) talk about it,
does not mean Daddy does not know about it.

but keeping things from Me,

just not telling Me

adds on to your coming misery.

for when I stay awake, late into the night,
I will observe My sacred plight,
and even dare taking delight,
to be teaching Mine, with all My might,
onto the sit-spot as onto their thighs,
deceptions, omissions all are just lies,
and you will wish then, not wronged but done right!

#poeticjustice #food4thought #Love #SpankieMonster
#StrictMotivation Alternative Life Training #SMalt



#ps: My, your Protector’s, Creed


don’t worry,
yes I know
you do feel sorry
you are now contrite
not daring to look up?
not left, nor right

I know how you feel inside
I know you feel so horribly hurt
so alone
so lost in this world

you wanted to do
what felt good
you had intentions
and now you are facing
and your eyes wet with tears

have no fear
yes I will hurt you
that is part of the deal
I will cleanse you
elevate you
from the guilt, you’d feel

I will help you always.
Not necessarily the way you want Me to
but the way you definitely need Me to

I will stand by you
like a rock,
be there through your shocks
calm, yet outspoken

I will be the Lord,
the Knight,
The Star to bring you light
in the darkest night

I will stand you by
I will allow you, to cry
come: shed those salty gems
I will hold you
we are more than just friends
I am holding out over you
My Protector’s Hand

that very Hand
that now you fear
that very Hand
that will in the end
tear into your rear
and fortify the tears

I will hear you out
allow you letting go
but if you think
I let you mess up
– surprise –
I firmly will say

because I care about you
because I know you have many skills
because I know how you
are prone to fall
victim to those ills
that lacerate your soul
you need to let go
your precious “… but I am in control”
because: no
you are not
and your tune soon gets old

therefore you will do
as you are told

I will whip you into shape
shake you to the core
bring structure while you are awake
and make sure you are in bed
and get the sleep
you need

let’s be real
yes, you can heal
you can fly
you can achieve
step by step
directed by Me
with My Strict Motivation
and your committed devotion
become the best
you were designed to be
because I hold the key
you just follow My Lead

for this is My, your Protector’s, Creed

(c) 2016


#food4thought punishing accidents?


you ask Me: “why do you punish me after i am already feeling bad about my mistake.” or “but it was an accident!” or “i did not do it on purpose!” or “it was just an oversight!” or “i just slipped, no big deal!


My answer is simple (not easy). Misery loves company. When you choose a behavior or an action you are automatically choosing every consequence that stems from it. Be more mindful at the moment and train your brain in consequential thinking. If you want to avoid punishment, avoid your own unwanted actions and behaviors that lead to punishment. #StrictMotivation #wejustgetbetter #food4thought


#food4thought building bridges

I am a Bridge-builder giving you Direction: Step-by-step providing Motivation for you to get better. talking the talk and walking the walk, you are NOT in this alone, go get traction #StrictMotivation #food4thought


you may think I am cruel


You may think I am cruel, but I am not. You are very cruel, and you don’t mind abusing yourself, sometimes even showing disgraceful behavior towards other people. that, of course, is your call and you would like to make that none of My business


I am not cruel, I am Strict and I am the Meaner. What I do has a meaning, and I mean what I do. I am implementing stuff intentionally, thoughtfully, empathically, and with strictness and consequentiality, thoroughly but I am not cruel.


when a child runs towards rail tracks with the train approaching, and you run after the child and trip it before it reaches the tracks, and it has a bleeding knee because of the rescue mission, that is collateral damage, yes, but certainly not cruel. letting the child run into the tracks, that would be cruel


when you watch someone bully and abuse, letting them continue their destructive ways, is cruel. stopping them, even at the cost of causing some temporary discomfort, is not cruel. it is a necessary intervention.


when you have a tumor and the doctor is cutting it out and cuts into else untouched flesh, that also is a collateral damage that will be taken into account. The doctor is being thorough and not taking chances. That is hardly being cruel


When I am offering you #StrictMotivation, the methods may be archaic sometimes, tedious, or what have you and you may think they are cruel, but in that you are being unreasonable like a child, selfish like the bully and irresponsible like a doctor afraid to be thorough. You are factually being eaten by your own cancer of cruelty and shortsightedness.



If it makes you feel good to call Me names, and adjectives that don’t fit, though you may feel entitled to that opinion, you are doing yourself another disfavor. You are just proving My point that you do need a lot more training and a lot of said #StrictMotivation that triggered your ill response in the first place


I am not giving in to the ill, I am not bargaining with an enemy and I am not negotiating on those terms. I will work within the set parameters with consequence, thoroughly and whether you like Me (or my methods) or not is none of My business. Your behaviors as your betterment however are.


#StrictMotivation #wejustgetbetter



#food4thought: in a good mood

I am in a Good Mood today. That does not mean I will tolerate bs. That means, if you do bs, I will hold you to a standard while SMiling #StrictMotivation #wejustgetbetter



DD = Daddy’s Day {#SM1806


Every day is Daddy’s day, at least every good Daddy will tell you that this is true. I take care of Mine, day in and day out, and gladly. I thank the Lord for all that He allows Me to do for Mine, every day. And that is the most fulfilling, satisfactory feeling in the world. Knowing that I can be of Service and that by being the unique Me, My sort of vice, the Sir vice I am offering helps those of My Tribe to strive and arrive at a good place, the place they deserve at life.


No father can be prouder, than a loving Daddy. My love is abundant and I love Mine without condition. To a fault, with the intensity of My big giant heart. No, I am not throwing Myself a parade. This big heart of Mine, that will break for Mine and grow, and shower them with love and attention and praise, will be just as generous with love and attention when it comes to deterring unwanted (aka bad) behaviors.


I call this the praise and paddle approach. Giving abundantly, freely and enthusiastically (preferably) the tender and caring love, but also not sparing the “spoiled (adult) child” the rod of discipline and the tough love needed to steer Mine towards and keep them on the path of the straight and narrow.


My early motivational poster quote read: “Because we Dare to care and love, we feel no Shame, no Malice” And it is true as far as I am concerned.


Whatever legally adult age you are, regardless of your spiritual background or lack thereof, your sexual orientation, your lifestyle role or your profession, your marital status, which genders identity you have, or what shape your body has… this has no influence on My love for Mine. Love loves the diversity and individuality. I just love.


And though loving is enough. Though love is all we need. Though to every challenge and every disaster, love is the answer, and though the love I give needs not be reappropriated, in order for Me to give it, or for Me to be happy, of course, when I receive those giant showing of appreciation by Mine, those symbols and yes status symbols at that of how much My love is appreciated, I am so very deeply moved.


And ever so grateful. Thank you, Mine, all of you. And a very special thank you to those of you, who even went that extra mile, to let Daddy know, how much you care. It makes My Daddy’s day even more extra special.

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Daddy Strict

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