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themed BDSM, D/s, Spanko or Strict Motivation musings, reflecting the philosophy/psychology of this world of ours,

#ps: My, your Protector’s, Creed


don’t worry,
yes I know
you do feel sorry
you are now contrite
not daring to look up?
not left, nor right

I know how you feel inside
I know you feel so horribly hurt
so alone
so lost in this world

you wanted to do
what felt good
you had intentions
and now you are facing
and your eyes wet with tears

have no fear
yes I will hurt you
that is part of the deal
I will cleanse you
elevate you
from the guilt, you’d feel

I will help you always.
Not necessarily the way you want Me to
but the way you definitely need Me to

I will stand by you
like a rock,
be there through your shocks
calm, yet outspoken

I will be the Lord,
the Knight,
The Star to bring you light
in the darkest night

I will stand you by
I will allow you, to cry
come: shed those salty gems
I will hold you
we are more than just friends
I am holding out over you
My Protector’s Hand

that very Hand
that now you fear
that very Hand
that will in the end
tear into your rear
and fortify the tears

I will hear you out
allow you letting go
but if you think
I let you mess up
– surprise –
I firmly will say

because I care about you
because I know you have many skills
because I know how you
are prone to fall
victim to those ills
that lacerate your soul
you need to let go
your precious “… but I am in control”
because: no
you are not
and your tune soon gets old

therefore you will do
as you are told

I will whip you into shape
shake you to the core
bring structure while you are awake
and make sure you are in bed
and get the sleep
you need

let’s be real
yes, you can heal
you can fly
you can achieve
step by step
directed by Me
with My Strict Motivation
and your committed devotion
become the best
you were designed to be
because I hold the key
you just follow My Lead

for this is My, your Protector’s, Creed

(c) 2016



MRI: on probation at work

ElisaMark: Let say … you found out i was on probation at work? What would the consequences be with you . ?
#DaddyStrictMotivation: you would receive a scolding, a mouth soaping, and a paddling along with corner time and some behavioral modification things, to take down your cockiness
ElisaMark: Wow that’s a lot for one punishment? But behavior modification things?

#DaddyStrictMotivation: it is not a lot for one punishment. I am a disciplinarian and a life coach. I want to see change happen quicker not later. why? because I care more about people under My wing then they do about their life at the moment they misbehaved. so why doing things wimpily, if we can be effective. If you were on probation at work you need a bit of getting yourself in the mindset what an incredible privilege you have to be employed at all, and nothing is won from not teaching a culprit humility and the wrong of their ways and trying to avoid such misbehavior at all costs in the future. #StrictMotivation Behavior Modification aims to curb their entitlement: along the lines, if you do not carry yourself like a reasonable, responsible adult, you will not get to have the privileges that stage in life bring. #wejustgetbetter #StrictMotivation Alternative Life Training #SMalt 


ElisaMark: Now i see your point.


footnote: MRI stands for Mentor Replies Inquiries; aka My “dear-abby” section

you may think I am cruel


You may think I am cruel, but I am not. You are very cruel, and you don’t mind abusing yourself, sometimes even showing disgraceful behavior towards other people. that, of course, is your call and you would like to make that none of My business


I am not cruel, I am Strict and I am the Meaner. What I do has a meaning, and I mean what I do. I am implementing stuff intentionally, thoughtfully, empathically, and with strictness and consequentiality, thoroughly but I am not cruel.


when a child runs towards rail tracks with the train approaching, and you run after the child and trip it before it reaches the tracks, and it has a bleeding knee because of the rescue mission, that is collateral damage, yes, but certainly not cruel. letting the child run into the tracks, that would be cruel


when you watch someone bully and abuse, letting them continue their destructive ways, is cruel. stopping them, even at the cost of causing some temporary discomfort, is not cruel. it is a necessary intervention.


when you have a tumor and the doctor is cutting it out and cuts into else untouched flesh, that also is a collateral damage that will be taken into account. The doctor is being thorough and not taking chances. That is hardly being cruel


When I am offering you #StrictMotivation, the methods may be archaic sometimes, tedious, or what have you and you may think they are cruel, but in that you are being unreasonable like a child, selfish like the bully and irresponsible like a doctor afraid to be thorough. You are factually being eaten by your own cancer of cruelty and shortsightedness.



If it makes you feel good to call Me names, and adjectives that don’t fit, though you may feel entitled to that opinion, you are doing yourself another disfavor. You are just proving My point that you do need a lot more training and a lot of said #StrictMotivation that triggered your ill response in the first place


I am not giving in to the ill, I am not bargaining with an enemy and I am not negotiating on those terms. I will work within the set parameters with consequence, thoroughly and whether you like Me (or my methods) or not is none of My business. Your behaviors as your betterment however are.


#StrictMotivation #wejustgetbetter



DD = Daddy’s Day {#SM1806


Every day is Daddy’s day, at least every good Daddy will tell you that this is true. I take care of Mine, day in and day out, and gladly. I thank the Lord for all that He allows Me to do for Mine, every day. And that is the most fulfilling, satisfactory feeling in the world. Knowing that I can be of Service and that by being the unique Me, My sort of vice, the Sir vice I am offering helps those of My Tribe to strive and arrive at a good place, the place they deserve at life.


No father can be prouder, than a loving Daddy. My love is abundant and I love Mine without condition. To a fault, with the intensity of My big giant heart. No, I am not throwing Myself a parade. This big heart of Mine, that will break for Mine and grow, and shower them with love and attention and praise, will be just as generous with love and attention when it comes to deterring unwanted (aka bad) behaviors.


I call this the praise and paddle approach. Giving abundantly, freely and enthusiastically (preferably) the tender and caring love, but also not sparing the “spoiled (adult) child” the rod of discipline and the tough love needed to steer Mine towards and keep them on the path of the straight and narrow.


My early motivational poster quote read: “Because we Dare to care and love, we feel no Shame, no Malice” And it is true as far as I am concerned.


Whatever legally adult age you are, regardless of your spiritual background or lack thereof, your sexual orientation, your lifestyle role or your profession, your marital status, which genders identity you have, or what shape your body has… this has no influence on My love for Mine. Love loves the diversity and individuality. I just love.


And though loving is enough. Though love is all we need. Though to every challenge and every disaster, love is the answer, and though the love I give needs not be reappropriated, in order for Me to give it, or for Me to be happy, of course, when I receive those giant showing of appreciation by Mine, those symbols and yes status symbols at that of how much My love is appreciated, I am so very deeply moved.


And ever so grateful. Thank you, Mine, all of you. And a very special thank you to those of you, who even went that extra mile, to let Daddy know, how much you care. It makes My Daddy’s day even more extra special.

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Daddy Strict

#StrictMotivation #wejustgetbetter

#food4thought on board of sensibility

nothing gets brats on board of sensibility, like paddles and straps ensuring their accountability. #StrictMotivation proverbial #wiSdoM #food4thought



working charms against ills & harms

This is not just a distant memory from days long gone by, this is the reality, that I do live by ~ For when I take the reins, to help you overcome your obstacles, and tackle your troubles, granted: there will be some growing pains. Knowing in life, pain is inevitable but suffering is optional, I will stand by you, guide you and guard you, teach you and train you to achieve worthy life goals. Because I care, and because you matter; you deserve to be better. #food4thought #StrictMotivation #wejustgetbetter 



May the Force be with you 2018 {SM1805}

Happy Jedi day, anno Domini 2018 ~ May the 4th be with you!

On Jedi day we are reminded even if pop-culturally that each of us has a choice. The choice how we will invest our energy and thus spend our lives. Energy just is energy. You can thus choose whether you will approach the energy from the Jedi side, like a hero, or from the dark side, like a zero. Yes, yes, I get it is stereotypical, and don’t you dare roll your eyes at Me, young lady, or I will make sure you will just as well roll your ass at Me, squirming more over My knee!

It is not even a second too early, to dole out My tough love to you, Mine, not only as a form of disciplinary maintenance and #StrictMotivation to do better and good going forward, but also to put a full stop to the broken strategies that keep disturbing and eventually derailing your life from the path of the straight and narrow towards the ditch and into abysses of tragedy. It is time, to be an adult, which means to do the tough choices, and do them right, and show the inner discipline to keep doing what is right over what would be nicer or convenient. It is time to show behavioral integrity and be proactively engaged in your healing process.

It is time you give up those strategies you are using, that in the Jedi sense are associated with *the dark side of the force*, in terms of life or success training and (re-)parenting would be considered *unwanted behaviors* or in short, would be associated with #badgirl

While yes, you are a brat you also are a mom. Whether you like it or not, your responsibilities trump your conveniences and duties come before fun – unless and until you learn to deeply enjoy the #beautyofduty. You may now start to understand, why and how #diligenceisintelligence in My world because it allows you to functionally adult and thus reaping the privileges of adult life.

The childish short-sighted *to hell with consequences, I want what I want and I want it now!* #brattitude will get you no-where in life. Granted, you can indulge your mind with short-lived instant gratifications, which will ultimately lead to addictions and repetitive cycles of unhappiness. Because again you are making the choice to associate with *the dark side of the force* feeding into the field of the enemy. You are forfeiting the chance of a long-term happiness. You are sabotaging your success at life, you are undermining your ability for lasting satisfaction beyond the (illusion of) momentary bliss, promised by the fixes of the enemy. By avoiding the confrontation with potential frustrating experiences, you are getting thin-skinned thus making matters only worse and worse.

Instead of building your abilities and thus yourself and your tolerance for hardship up, becoming the victor in life, you are now settling for a situational victim. You are entering the vicious cycle´, and running blind-sighted into the trap the enemy lays out and coats with the “sweetness of deceit” or “deceitful sweetness” as it actually turns out: your selfsabotage makes you feel weaker and inapt to deal with stuff in a healthy way, thus you will resort to unhealthy ways, which will create more chaos while robbing you of the abiliies to deal with it, which creates a greater hunger for more of the benumbing, which prevents the growth necessary, and it is a not-marry go round, and spirals out of control getting ugly, and uglier still in a hurry.

The best way to break free from this vicious cycle of self-abuse is to not enter it at all. But as things are, that ship has sailed. So now, that you are being pummeled by life, for the bad choices taken, what you need to do is take a few steps back, and make a better decision next time. The adult decision. The option A. You have tried plan b (#brat) and look where it got you. Your life is a mess, not a success. Instead of the bliss, you have unveiled that the enemy is a trickster and a liar. The enemy deals in lies and half-truths, in omissions and other forms of deceit. And that is why we do not mingle with that minion of evil in the first place and why we force ourselves if necessary, to be better, braver and thus more immune to temptations of loop-holes and short-cuts that in the end only cut ourselves short of true happiness.


Stepping back hurts. It hurts the pride. It humbles us, and it is painful, but this humbling experience also strengthens us. No longer can we walk on our feet, the head held high. We are forced to our knees, as to get closer to the source and strengthen our roots. Before we can re-grow the new branch, the future stem strong enough to withstand the storms of life, and the outrages, the tempests, and the attacks of the enemy, we need to crouch back onto the ground, of which’s bosom we sprang. Here, humbled we refill our being with the strength and the force of life.

That very kneeling, painful as it is, serves to the future glory. Oh yes, you can endure hard things. Oh yes, you too can handle the pain, and you will grow a thicker skin, and your ability to endure. You will suffer at the moment, granted, and suffer a lot. It will not be times of pride nor convenience. They will be trying times and tiring times. They will be hard and maybe harsh. They will feel undoable, horrifying, excruciating at times, but they are to be endured and ideally to be embraced because they grow your backbone to become the brave soldier you need to be so that life and the enemy don’t bring you down eternally.

Avoiding pain does not work, because pain is inevitable as a factor of growth. Suffering, however, is optional and just a bad choice you are making. Since you lacked the self-discipline to adult on your own, I will, as your Protector provide the discipline from the outside. I will make sure you learn to endure the pain, for when endured well, it is momentary pain that too will pass. Your avoidance tactics are just a void-dance antics. They trap you on a track to misery and eventual tragedy. Since you chose the enemy over what is right and good, you have also chosen the consequences you now have coming. You will be working on divorcing yourself from the unholy communion with the unholy, the enemy, and all the senseless, repetitive suffering that it entails.

You will learn to get a glimpse into the true nature of the sugarcoated evil the enemy deals. That short-lived fake bliss will come with a kiss of the pain you are setting yourself up. We will sour and bitter up that quick fix, that loop-hole, that short-cut, that bypass you would choose in an idle attempt to circumvent the hardship growth holds. You will get a taste of the true nature of the unholy ally you prefer over the Principle of Love. Your avoidance attitude will come now with a painful price of its own. Giving you an idea of the senseless suffering you are setting yourself up for through your self-sabotage.

You will learn that there is no alternative to the straight and narrow path of the righteous. You will learn to embrace the blessings bestowed upon you, the chance to change and even the pain of growth. You will learn to embrace diligence as the intelligence it is. You will learn to embrace the beauty in duty. You will embrace the privileges of being a responsible adult and a reliable member of society, an upstanding, law-abiding citizen, serving in humbleness and gratitude, working towards the perpetual bliss of true freedom and true happiness under God, in the Name of LOVE. And, so help Me God, I will lead your way, step by step.

We do not bow down to the temptations of evil, its false promises of power through manipulation, lies, deceit, and slavery to the powers of darkness. We, like the Jedi, choose to grow from within. We choose to defy the temptations of suppressing and oppressing, aggressing and depressing. We do not succumb to the dark side of the force, no matter what sweet promise it may make. We see through its fog of lies and deceptions. For we are made of light to illuminate the darkness like torches, like lightsabers. For we are born from the Great Origin, and destined to be vessels of the very energy, in resonance with God’s plan.

May the Force be with you.

Momentary bliss is the key to an abyss. The hardship of growth is an investment beyond now, beyond doubt into success and perpetual happiness. #StrictMotivation #wejustgetbetter

Happy Jedi day, anno Domini 2018 ~ May the 4th be with you!