Category Archives: #OBS

#food4thought on the science of weasels

if you “slap me with science” to get out of a consequence, I will whip you with wiSdoM #StrictMotivation




you are not in this alone

when you became one of Mine
you got on board to become an ally
you got under My Protection
and though it does not offer perfection
its armor holds its promise all time

you are not in this alone, Mine!

we pledged alliance to our banner
we pledged that the shield be made of honor
we pledged that love will be our armor
we pledged for times of hardship –
not just times of glamour

you are not in this alone, Mine

and in these times where you feel tried
when you are tempted to get harmed
when you feel subdued by the ills this time
when you feel compelled in the “charms of crime”
this is nothing but a call to arms!

you are not in this alone, Mine

now that the wind got stormy and rough
now that abundance seems just not enough
now that the land is deranged by draught
now that battles seem lost, we once had fought
giving in to defeat we still shall not

Mine: you are not in this alone

you have unconditional love, second to none
we are SMart and wise to set the tone
let’s sing together, our affirmations’ song
you are not weak, nor defeat: for *we*’re strong

I Protect Mine: you are not in this alone



what a FeBruary

You know how facebook makes those little promo clips for you to share from pictures you posted in the past? well they composed a clip called what a february, and it is so brilliantly done, I had to share with you… #StrictMotivation



#MRI why dont you reveal your punishment?

I was asked by one of My play-partners today a question that will come up time and again.


“what is it with you Daddys/Doms/Disciplinarians that you never reveal what the punishment will be; why do you make me (us) wait? Don’t you know how antsy we bottoms get? The anxiety is killing us!”


My answer was simple. “It is a power thing: you bottoms have the power to (learn to) control your behaviors and us D-types are in charge of the consequences for your behavior. As for making you wait and not know – that **is** the point. It is a punishment, aka a deterrent to unwanted behaviors. Therefore your dread and apprehension feelings are just another bonus to the general idea. If you don’t want to face the consequences, don’t deserve them in the first place #StrictMotivation




#go2bed 170626

There is nothing better to achieve worthy life goals than relying on discipline based on a working structure. #Strictmotivation #wejustgetbetter


ph-levels of EU soap bars

well that was a wash. and not the intended nice wash, at that. I had invested into an electronic ph meter, and it turns out the POC is not water proof. so I will have to invest in one that works more reliably down the road but interim I can share My finding with My readers. since the cheap meter ‘s quality was questionable as it turned out, I take no guarantee the results are accurate.


ph levels are measured from acidic to alkaline, on a scale of usually between 0.0 (acidic) to 14.0 (alkaline) but contrary to popular belief, agents can be more acidic or alkaline and exceed that basic scale. Water, which is neutral, being neither alkaline nor acidic is measured at 7.0. The human skin is usually measured at 5.5 (so mildly acidic)

  • Altera, Granatapfel pomme de grenade, drug store generic, Germany … 5.9
  • Altera Rose, Rossmann drug store generic, made in Germany …….. 5.9
  • Balea, DM: Arztseife , drug store generic (doctor’s), Germany ……….8.5
  • Cleopatra available in Germany, made in France ……………………….8.8

at this point the meter gave out 😦 I will continue the testing when I have a more reliable meter.


the ph level testing is one of the precautions I am taking so I can make a better risk assessment when dishing out soap as a consequence – be it through mouth soaping or other applications of the detergent – because safety matters & I care for you



OBSIDIAN Online Boarding School


The Mission of our Online Boarding School OBSIDIAN

by Dean Strict Meaner

As every  esteemed institute we care greatly for the well being and an orderly conduct of the enlisted students. Our virtual school allows you, our future student, to not only get your inner brat’s attitude checked, but also to improve your behavior and performance at life. 

polished rainbow obsidian from Mexico

Obsidians are a family of semi-precious minerals that are formed when volcanoes erupt. They are natural volcanic glass which at times is laced with visible spots of feldspar – in that case we are witnessing a transformation. Hence this stone represents, like few others, transformation processes. From the liquid hot lava, to a volcanic glass and later to feldspar this stone represents an eventful journey. That is one of the reasons we have chosen this beautiful natural material as the name patron to our institution. We too believe, that will time and effort, even the most hard headed can be helped to change and transform to a better version of themselves. We also know that for that to happen, it takes quite some heat, pressure, consistency, effort and patience. But as time progresses, with dedicated effort, care and attention, the heat will cool off and reveal a completely new beauty. The wildness of the lava is tamed, and exposes a stone ready to be cut, polished and set into outstanding jewelry or shine in its own right.

The shortcut of the term obsidian (“obs”) is a fun pun: in naval traditions obs stands for the observatory. #OBS also is an acronym for what we are all about: Online Boarding School. OBSIDIAN too forms an acronym in its own standing, describing eloquently both; what we provide in our institution: Orderly Behavioral Structure Individual Discipline InterActioN and the values we represent Order, Behavior, Structure, Ideals, Diligence, Individuality, Actions and Nourishment.

As the Dean of this esteemed institution (where only consenting adults can enroll) I am  closely monitoring the students & trainees progress, using traditional forms of discipline and correction to deter bad, unwanted and ill behaviors for those students who are under My wings.

We have a zero tolerance policy for misbehavior, disobedience, laziness and giving up. you will be getting better either through self motivation or be made to through means of Strict Motivation. You are working with an experienced and seasoned success trainer and life coach and we be held accountable and to a higher standard to make sure your education and stay in our care is beneficial for your personal development and sets you up for a more fulfilled life in your future

From the convenience of your home, at your place and your pace, you can sign your inner brat, little or middle to the OBS Obsidian where you are allowed and inspired to playfully learn,  train, re-learn or re-train a more healthy, motivated, structured and successful way of life. Whether you do it as a pass-time or with the goal of self-improvement will determine how much real life benefit you will reap from that experience.

The OBS OBSIDIAN is a branch of the holistic, working, step by step  life coaching, healthy living and success training SMile! and SMalt! life coaching plans by #StrictMotivation

Candidates for the school may decide whether they want to enroll as students for a full OBS Term, or just engage for one OBS segment/”semester” in a trainee position. An OBS Semester/segment consists of 7 consecutive days. An OBS Term consists of 28 consecutive days, with 4 segments (“semesters”) of 7 consecutive days each.  


Whether you want to tackle fantasy scenarios or role play or “real life issues” is up to you. Either way you will be given an opportunity to learn and to keep your inner brat in check. Because there is a lot that We can do, about your “br-attitude”

Our House rules will entail an individually tailored, personal regiment which will be monitored. Our students are given a form of educational aka maintenance discipline as a guideline and to assure ongoing discipline in Our institute and your own life.  You will report timely on your progress and graded accordingly. Based on the reports, you will  receive a report card  for every segment/”semester” with a consequence defined by your conduct. A pep talk, possibly additional privileges assigned as a reward for the well behaved, a talk down lecture and a punishment for the miscreants.


We care enough about you, to provide you with the necessary Discipline & Structure for your own good. The severity of the consequences will vary on your tolerance levels, because we work within clearly defined limits and are vehemently opposed to any abuse in our House. Positive enforcement and motivation of wanted, good behaviors also is offered to our students, through rewards for impeccable, desirable, exemplary achievements depending on your performance in the prior segment.

OBS OBSIDIAN currently is accepting new students:


Reasonably priced for an affordable tuition starting as low as $30.00 USD for a one-“OBS semester” trainee position and USD 100.00 for a whole OBS Term as enrolled student this thrill could be yours to have!

anim_$1Safe up to 50% tuitionlicht - lampefees in our OBSIDIAN Spring 17 Special:

  •  one-“OBS semester” trainee position @ USD 20.00$ *
  • OBS Term (4 “semesters”) student position @ USD 50.00$*

(*for sign ups including payments till May 31st 2017):


Don’t miss out and sign up today!

Sincerely, Dean Strict Meaner ~ (c)

OBS OBSIDIAN by is for consenting adults only of any adult age, ethnicity, gender identity, spiritual background, location, social / relationship / employment status, role, or sexual orientation.